...sans crystal ball
Ever since we watched Dorothy prance down the Yellow Brick Road with her miniature dog and red pumps, we have all been inspired to crystal-ball into the future to see our own fantasy world.
Not only are we dying to know whether we're going to get the guy, the career/biz, the Birkin Bag and the dream home, we've also got major anxiety over making the right decisions to get there.
I know I am not the only one that is obsessed with numerology, astrology and Chinese zodiac, and I have even tried to read my own frickin' tea leaves.
Let's start taking matters into our own hands!
You can see your future now, decide exactly what it will look like and know you are making decisions that are aligned with your dream-life.
The actions you take now, are ultimately what creates your future so it's super important to take mindful measures to manifest all of the glamour + success you deserve!
Write down your goals:
I don't like to get too technical and "rule-ish" about goals, that takes the fun and excitement out of the process.
Keep it simple, write out your top 5-10 goals and keep them in a notepad by your bed.
If you are an organization freak like me you can separate them into 3 months, 6 months, 1 year + 5 years, or whatever way makes it easy for you to visualize them.
Every night and every morning take them out and give them a read-through. Check them off as you go and add news one too!
When you read them before bed and before starting your day you are set into the right mind-space to really reach for your dreams!
Get crafty and make your very own vision board:
We are visual beings so you can imagine how powerful it is to look at a beautiful picture every day that illustrates exactly how you want your life to be.
Keep it in a place where you'll look at it every day and choose images that make you feel really good.
You are imprinting these visions into your subconscious so remember to tune into how amazing it would feel.
Not the glue and scissors type? Use Pinterest but be sure to check out your board regularly!
Visualize your dream life er' day:
Spend 5 minutes every morning visualizing your dream life. Again, this can be your 3 month, 6 month, 1 year or 5 years self, or, even just who you want to be that day!
This is not just about seeing, it's also about feeling, which means noticing the physical and emotional vibes that come along with your dream life and feeling them as you are now!
I have a slight obsession with control but I have learned that the best way to work with visualizations is to feel it, let it go and then come back to it.
If you are constantly obsessing over your visions and putting pressuring on yourself to feel a certain way it will not work. Use your visualizations as a fun escape rather than a forceful way to get what you want from the universe.
Massage that Third Eye Chakra:
Your Third Eye Chakra is all about your purpose in life and intuitively finding it. That means making the right decisions to find your highest levels of success, love, abundance and happiness.
Some great ways to bring attention to it are to physically massage it and to breath deep into it and also imagining a wheel of energy that leaves through your third eye, goes out into the universe and circle back in.
That signifies your intuition going out into the world in form of good choices, and then returning back in for more introspective!
Become exceptionally clear on your dream life and know that you deserve it:
None of these tactics are going to work if you don't know what you want, or you don't think you can get it.
You need to believe in yourself and know that everything is possible for you.
Remember that Beyonce wasn't built in a day but hard work, clarity and determination made her the baddest b*tch around. You have all of this in you too.
Maybe there are some blockages you need to work through, maybe you need to spend some time on getting clear and "doing you," but your dreams are totally worth it.
As always, if you need any help, you can email me at email@example.com with your questions and I will reply back to you with some tips, no strings attached.
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